OOoo…Tinder

As you may or may not know about me, I'm an old school guy.  I believe guys should do the asking out, guys should take care of the woman, and on a first date, you pamper a lady to no end.  I'm a firm believer of not using dating websites and believe when you fall in love with someone, it's going to be a person you see across the room and your eyes lock, and then the music builds to a crescendo, and fireworks begin.  That's what finding your significant other should be like.  Well in Wei's mind and crazy thoughts, that's what dating is like for me.  Hahaha, pure delusion.

Now, since July 4th, I've been hooked on a little app though called…wait for it…Tinder.  Now, trust me, it's not something I wanted to have or download, it was purely for my friends' benefits.  They've heard nothing but awesome things about this app, and after a month of coaxing and extreme night of drinking, f*ck it I'm in I said.  Forewarning everyone, this is the most shallow app you will ever have or see.  However just like in anything else in life though, it's extremely true to meeting the opposite sex.

What does that even mean?  Well, when you see that person across the room, you have no idea who that person is, but you are extremely attracted to them because of their looks no?  I feel Tinder is the same thing, by frankly it's exactly the same thing.  Deep down inside, we are shallow human beings, but you know what, that's what makes us all human.  It is what it is.  Okay anyway…on to the app.

Okay so Tinder, if you don't know by now, here's the basic gist.  You see the picture of the opposite sex, or if you swing the other way the same sex, and if you like them and you find them attractive you either hit the Yes button or the No button, all in all you are just basically looking for love by their looks.  Some say this thing is for people hooking up.  Some say it's for meeting new people and making friends.  Some say you're hooking up with a tons of escorts, some may even say you're a space cowboy…sorry lost my train of thought.  Well whatever you are looking for, it's on here.  I find it pretty funny actually, and you know what, somewhat addictive.  There are a ton of girls out there, I honestly find it hard to believe that a ton of them are single.  However, you know what, good for everyone looking for that significant other or that one night stand I guess.  As for me, we match, I'm just going to say something nice, maybe talk to you for a bit, and I'm on my way out.  At the end of the day.  I'm still old fashion, and how do you explain to people how you meet?  We met on Tinder…seems awkward as a conversation.  Or maybe I'm just being dumb about the entire situation.

Anyway, so this has been my Tinder experience.  If you're trying to meet new people, go out there and download that app people.  It's fun and happening.  Enjoy friends!  ^___^

Happy Tindering folks.  It's fun and shallow at the same time.  Enjoy!